"love isn't finding someone you can live with..but finding someone you can't live without."

haha..i was browsing the blogskins website to find something good for the future..but i came up to the skin showing the quote above. sayang nga lang, maganda sana kaso click to nav xa..better find something na "isang bagsak" (sbe nga ni heb) lng.

the quote struck me as it is..nothing special..but the quote left a mark on my head. nsbi ko..oo nga noh..they've been finding those persons to whom they can live their forever..those who will love them and care for them till the end of time...pero npansin ko lang,,kahit sino naman pwedeng gawin yun sa'yo diba? then how'd you find that special someone kung every man on this earth can care for you and stay with you forever? of all the man willing to be yours..cno ang pipiliin mo? hehe..aun..tama ung quote diba..finding someone you can't live without. oo..kaya kang alagaan at samahan ng lahat ng tao sa mundo..pero may isa lang sa puso mo na hindi ka tlaga mabubuhay ng wla un. and that's what we call love.

then came the first statement. xmpre after finding someone you can't live without..you want now to stay with that person forever..kasi nga hindi ka mabubuhay ng wala xa right? that's why they have to say.."you're mine" and the like para mgng till death to us part na ang drama db? after a relationship..there comes marriage..the greatest promise on earth between two lovers.

marriage. what a word. a word derived from love. a word meant to be forever. pero bkt gnon..db supposed to be love ang bubuo sa marriages? why is it there are "arranged marriages"? bkt kaya nila ginawa un? it's bad to say this pero prang gnamit nila ang marriage for other things. they've taken advantage of what it is not supposed to do..for example sa business..to keep it through ages..the siblings must continue marry another business associate or whatsoever. otherwise hindi na macocontinue ung business. it's so sad na wala na silang karapatang mamili ng taong pkksalan nila, ung taong hnd cla mbubuhay pag wla un..pero kung un talaga ang culture nila wala naman akong karapatang i-question un.

hayy..bakit ko nga ba naisip ang mga bagay na to? bata pa ako..edi syempre nanonood ako ng tv. sobrang cliche na nga ung stories about arranged marriages na..hnd natutuloy dahil ung dlwang un may ibang minahal..pero its not always that. minsan ung mga arranged marriages din ang nagiging way para magng cla. it may be because of the pressure from their parents..or somehow they have learned to love each other kaya nggng successful ang isang arranged marriage.

marriage..arranged or not...has destiny behind its back. hehehe..nkklungkot man para sa iba(skn na dn)..pero gnon talga..fate has decided it. =P